The CASA Connection

Learn more about what’s going on at CASA Project Worcester County, in our Central MA community, and with our partners by reading our NEW monthly blog! Have a topic you want to see featured? Interested in being a guest writer? Email communications@thecasaproject.org!

A Journey of Compassion:
McKenzie Davis-Martin's story as a foster and adoptive parent

Foster care is a journey of compassion, resilience, and hope, offering children a safe haven during challenging times. For those who choose to become foster parents, it’s an opportunity to make a profound difference in the lives of vulnerable youth, providing stability, love, and a sense of belonging when it’s needed most. Stepping into the world of foster care was a life-changing decision for McKenzie Davis-Martin and her wife. Their journey, marked by a deep commitment to nurturing and supporting children in need, began shortly after they relocated from Alabama to Massachusetts in 2016. They quickly took steps to become foster parents, filling out an online interest form on the Massachusetts Department of Children & Families website. Within a month, they were visited by a recruiter and promptly enrolled in the 10-week MAPP training classes. Their journey as foster parents began in February 2017 with their first placement. 

McKenzie’s journey as a foster and adoptive parent has shaped her perspective on the importance of providing stability and unconditional love to children facing uncertainty. Every placement has brought unique challenges and joys, teaching her resilience, adaptability, and the power of hope. Her home, often a hub of activity with visits from social workers, attorneys, and resource coordinators, reflects her dedication to creating a safe and nurturing environment for children to heal and thrive.

Outside her work and family life, McKenzie is an avid advocate for community-building initiatives that bridge gaps between individuals and resources. Whether organizing outdoor programs that encourage teamwork and connection to nature or collaborating with colleagues to strengthen support networks for foster families, she channels her passion into meaningful action.

Her role on the CASA Board has allowed her to contribute her lived experience and professional insight to shape policies and practices that prioritize the well-being of children. McKenzie’s ability to blend empathy with strategic thinking makes her an invaluable asset to the team and a source of inspiration for those who work alongside her.

Through every project, placement, and advocacy effort, McKenzie’s guiding principle remains clear: every child deserves to feel seen, valued, and supported.

McKenzie Davis-Martin and her wife along with their two adopted sons, Lorenzo and Santiago. 

Their first placement was a 2 ½-year-old boy who lived with them for over three years. As McKenzie explains: “When a new child is about to be placed with us, there’s always a mix of emotions. It’s exciting to prepare the things that will bring comfort and care, but we have to remember that these kids are coming from situations of tragedy and trauma.” As foster parents, they were committed to supporting whatever was best for him. Although this placement was the most challenging due to the deep bond they formed with him, it was ultimately a rewarding experience. He was reunified with his father when he was 6 years old. McKenzie continues to maintain a close relationship with him and his family, regularly coordinating activities with his father, such as playdates, sleepovers, overnight trips, camps, and attending school performances. 

It wasn’t until their third placement that McKenzie and her wife adopted their oldest son, Lorenzo. Lorenzo entered their lives as a 6-month-old and is now seven years old. McKenzie and her family have maintained an open dialogue with him about his life story from the beginning. They agreed to an open adoption with his biological mother, but she has been unable to attend any visits and has had no communication with them. Paternity was never established, and this issue occasionally weighs on Lorenzo’s mind. An extensive search was conducted to address this, but the results have been inconclusive; multiple paternity tests were completed with none being a match. Fortunately, they have a strong relationship with Lorenzo’s three biological siblings. They keep in touch through regular video calls, and Lorenzo enjoys finding commonalities with them, such as their shared freckles. Lorenzo is a deeply empathetic child who is always excited to welcome new foster siblings into their home. As he grows older, he has gained a better understanding of the challenges these children have faced and is willing to share his own story if he believes it might help others feel less alone. 

Their youngest adopted son, Santiago, was discharged from the NICU directly to McKenzie and her wife. Raising him from a newborn to a toddler has brought them immense joy. With only seven days’ notice, they officially adopted Santiago when he was 16 months old, and he is now a thriving 3-year-old. Santiago keeps in touch with his biological brother, Jose, who was adopted on the same day. Their adoption worker introduced Santiago to Jose’s family a few weeks before the adoption. The family celebrated the boys’ adoptions with a wonderful gathering at their home. Since then, the boys have maintained their bond, and McKenzie and her family have continued to build a strong relationship with Jose and his family.

They remain a long-term foster home and are open to expanding their family over time, with a goal of adopting one or two more children. Maintaining the high quality of care each child deserves is a priority, and they recognize that there are limits to how much they can take on. The fostering experience involves many moving parts, and they are committed to finding a balance within their household to continue fostering effectively.

CASA is fortunate to work with dedicated individuals like McKenzie, whose commitment to fostering and adoption brings invaluable insights and support to the organization. Their deep understanding of the challenges and rewards of foster care enriches CASA’s mission to advocate for children in the system. It is through the combined efforts of individuals, organizations, and the child welfare system that we build a stronger, more supportive environment for children in foster care. By ensuring they receive the care, support, and stability they need, we can collectively transform lives and create a brighter future for these vulnerable children.

Community stands as a pivotal element for collaboration, generating new ideas, and reaching new heights. It’s within our communities, partnerships, and among passionate individuals that change is catalyzed. At CASA, your support matters! We are always looking for people to join in our work. In 2023, CASA advocated for 338 children, with 108 achieving permanency by the end of the year. Advocacy remains at the heart of CASA, and we continuously seek individuals eager to positively impact the lives of young people in the regions child welfare system-that could be you!

Thank you for reading our very first blog post and for your interest and care for the youth we are dedicated to serving. As we look toward the opportunities that lie ahead for CASA Project Worcester County, we remain steadfast in our commitment to advancing our mission through creative community engagement.

The CASA Connection